"Family violence is one of their own social ills of our time" Jamin Psychologist Madrid, is the principal teaching school of psychology at the Universidad Peruana Union and also worked in the Ministry of Women several years ago, she will give us his impressions from a professional point of view from the area of \u200b\u200bmental health.
Jasmine graduated, what are the causes of abuse of man to his partner?
The phenomenon of family violence has multiple causes, it is difficult to say that it does so only because it is sexist, or because he also experienced abuse at home or because it is the way they react, sometimes to seek the causes are what we are looking excuses or justifications for the abuse. For all practical the most important thing is not to know the causes but search for strategies to halt the violence.
And what is the psychological profile of a batterer? Socially
prototype no aggressor can be of high or low, educated or not, young or old. Nor are "mentally ill" and not necessarily their behavior is linked to the consumption of alcohol or drugs. In fact, offenders may be very close to us, being co-workers, friends or neighbors, it is clear that most of them are 'normal', but we note in them machismo or justify the use of violence to resolve problems. Often
noticed that a woman despite being attacked by her husband, insists on going with him. Why she does not react and do something to prevent this damage against him?
This is a classic question on the issue of family violence, and many have wondered why women are not able to go out by themselves in the VF. I think that if they could they would have done, people do not like violence for violence itself, and is not a desirable situation for anyone. However, many women learn to tolerate the violence out of it because it seems more difficult and painful. Sometimes endure abuse may be more tolerable to support themselves by themselves, or learn to live without the father figure to her children, or imagine life without a partner. The reasons for the dependence may be multiple and apparently "well informed" but only serve to keep the victim in the cycle of violence. The Stockholm syndrome explains this: the victim as an accomplice of the attacker.
What are the consequences of domestic violence to the victim and her children?
The consequences are extremely traumatic and limitations. We can start talking about the physical health consequences ranging from minor cuts, bumps and bruises to chronic disability and death. And talk about how it affects mental health in For women who are beaten or sexually assaulted, the emotional and physical exhaustion can lead to suicide. Experienced enormous psychological suffering due to violence. Many are severely depressed or anxious, while others show symptoms of PTSD. They may be chronically fatigued, can not sleep, they may have nightmares or disturbances in eating habits, turning to alcohol and drugs to mask their pain, or isolated and withdrawn, without realizing, it seems, are getting into other problems, though less severe, but equally damaging.
How do you know who claims to be victim is actually the victim, as it could be she who is mistreating their partner?
This is an interesting question, is there a possibility that the man is the victim? I think all this fits into the same dynamics of family violence, it is likely that violence is mutual, however, the man is usually physically stronger and who, according to statistics the most assaults. If there is violence, usually women and children who are most affected.
what extent can help a psychologist in the life of an abused?
I would say that we can do much to help, however, I must admit that in my experience working with battered women, the issue is complex and alienating, the emotional demands are high. It is important that professionals who deal with these cases hold fairness and a realistic view of the likelihood of success, you need good knowledge of social reality and work on approaches that take into account the reality of human being affected by sin, as well as approaches Human Rights and Gender. People attacked, it takes a lot out of violence, it is up to them cutting their attackers and this will not happen overnight. It must also work with the family and social networks of the attack. Some women go
to the police and report abuse, soon reconciled with her partner and withdraw the complaint. Lose credibility and the public, private and community have lost confidence in the seriousness of his experience as a battered woman, because these acts denote lack of seriousness and determination. The psychologist who works on this topic, you must also deal with these situations within the dynamics of violence.
believe that family violence is one of the social ills of our own time and we need everyone to learn the attitudes and healthy behaviors that keep us from this kind of relationship so harmful. As a Christian psychologist, I think the plan of God for human beings and especially for families, is to show your love, love that is tolerant and understanding of things that we love, the love that is sincere, simple and friendly. He opposes violence and is willing to help all people (victims and perpetrators) who want to get out of it, we need only look with all my heart and He will fulfill his promises in us. Abuse hurts, but it seems that the change hurts more, not true, and God wants to teach us how to be truly free and happy.
By: Oved Chuquivala
The phenomenon of family violence has multiple causes, it is difficult to say that it does so only because it is sexist, or because he also experienced abuse at home or because it is the way they react, sometimes to seek the causes are what we are looking excuses or justifications for the abuse. For all practical the most important thing is not to know the causes but search for strategies to halt the violence.
And what is the psychological profile of a batterer? Socially
prototype no aggressor can be of high or low, educated or not, young or old. Nor are "mentally ill" and not necessarily their behavior is linked to the consumption of alcohol or drugs. In fact, offenders may be very close to us, being co-workers, friends or neighbors, it is clear that most of them are 'normal', but we note in them machismo or justify the use of violence to resolve problems. Often
noticed that a woman despite being attacked by her husband, insists on going with him. Why she does not react and do something to prevent this damage against him?
This is a classic question on the issue of family violence, and many have wondered why women are not able to go out by themselves in the VF. I think that if they could they would have done, people do not like violence for violence itself, and is not a desirable situation for anyone. However, many women learn to tolerate the violence out of it because it seems more difficult and painful. Sometimes endure abuse may be more tolerable to support themselves by themselves, or learn to live without the father figure to her children, or imagine life without a partner. The reasons for the dependence may be multiple and apparently "well informed" but only serve to keep the victim in the cycle of violence. The Stockholm syndrome explains this: the victim as an accomplice of the attacker.
What are the consequences of domestic violence to the victim and her children?
The consequences are extremely traumatic and limitations. We can start talking about the physical health consequences ranging from minor cuts, bumps and bruises to chronic disability and death. And talk about how it affects mental health in For women who are beaten or sexually assaulted, the emotional and physical exhaustion can lead to suicide. Experienced enormous psychological suffering due to violence. Many are severely depressed or anxious, while others show symptoms of PTSD. They may be chronically fatigued, can not sleep, they may have nightmares or disturbances in eating habits, turning to alcohol and drugs to mask their pain, or isolated and withdrawn, without realizing, it seems, are getting into other problems, though less severe, but equally damaging.
How do you know who claims to be victim is actually the victim, as it could be she who is mistreating their partner?
This is an interesting question, is there a possibility that the man is the victim? I think all this fits into the same dynamics of family violence, it is likely that violence is mutual, however, the man is usually physically stronger and who, according to statistics the most assaults. If there is violence, usually women and children who are most affected.
what extent can help a psychologist in the life of an abused?
I would say that we can do much to help, however, I must admit that in my experience working with battered women, the issue is complex and alienating, the emotional demands are high. It is important that professionals who deal with these cases hold fairness and a realistic view of the likelihood of success, you need good knowledge of social reality and work on approaches that take into account the reality of human being affected by sin, as well as approaches Human Rights and Gender. People attacked, it takes a lot out of violence, it is up to them cutting their attackers and this will not happen overnight. It must also work with the family and social networks of the attack. Some women go
to the police and report abuse, soon reconciled with her partner and withdraw the complaint. Lose credibility and the public, private and community have lost confidence in the seriousness of his experience as a battered woman, because these acts denote lack of seriousness and determination. The psychologist who works on this topic, you must also deal with these situations within the dynamics of violence.
believe that family violence is one of the social ills of our own time and we need everyone to learn the attitudes and healthy behaviors that keep us from this kind of relationship so harmful. As a Christian psychologist, I think the plan of God for human beings and especially for families, is to show your love, love that is tolerant and understanding of things that we love, the love that is sincere, simple and friendly. He opposes violence and is willing to help all people (victims and perpetrators) who want to get out of it, we need only look with all my heart and He will fulfill his promises in us. Abuse hurts, but it seems that the change hurts more, not true, and God wants to teach us how to be truly free and happy.
By: Oved Chuquivala
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